Child Custody (Parenting Orders) in Australia
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What is this right?
Child custody in Australia is handled through parenting orders under Part VII of the Family Law Act 1975. Every decision is based on the best interests of the child, which the Act marks as the paramount consideration (s. 60CA). The Family Law Amendment Act 2023, in force from 6 May 2024, removed the former presumption of equal shared parental responsibility — courts no longer start from the assumption that both parents share decision-making, and that change has rebalanced a lot of cases.
On time arrangements, the court weighs the benefit of a meaningful relationship with both parents against the need to protect the child from harm (s. 60CC). It looks at the child's views, the relationship with each parent, practical difficulties with proposed arrangements, and any family violence.
Parents can build a parenting plan privately, or formalise it through consent orders to make the agreement legally binding.
When does it apply?
These rules apply when:
- Parents (married, de facto, or otherwise) are separating or in dispute about arrangements for children under 18.
- Grandparents or other relatives may also apply for parenting orders in certain situations.
- You must attempt family dispute resolution (FDR) before filing in court, unless there is family violence or urgency (s 60I).
What to Do If You Are in a Child Custody Dispute in Australia
- Try to agree on a parenting plan — courts prefer parents who cooperate. A parenting plan is a written agreement signed by both parents.
- Attend family dispute resolution before applying to court. You need a s 60I certificate to file.
- Focus on the child's best interests — the court considers the child's wishes (depending on age and maturity), safety, and the benefit of a relationship with both parents.
- Document any safety concerns — if there is family violence or abuse, keep records with dates and details.
- Apply for consent orders if both parents agree — this makes the arrangement legally enforceable.
What should you NOT do?
- Don't withhold a child from the other parent unless there is a genuine and immediate safety concern — this can damage your case.
- Don't assume equal shared parental responsibility means equal time — the court decides time arrangements separately based on what is best for the child.
- Don't coach the child or speak negatively about the other parent — the court takes this seriously.
- Don't breach a parenting order — contravention can result in fines, community service, or even imprisonment (s 70NAE).
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Common Questions
When does child custody (parenting orders) apply?
These rules apply when:Parents (married, de facto, or otherwise) are separating or in dispute about arrangements for children under 18.Grandparents or other relatives may also apply for parenting orders in certain situations.You must attempt family dispute resolution (FDR) before filing in court, unless there is family violence or urgency (s 60I).
What should I do if I can't agree on child custody arrangements in Australia?
Try to agree on a parenting plan — courts prefer parents who cooperate. A parenting plan is a written agreement signed by both parents.Attend family dispute resolution before applying to court. You need a s 60I certificate to file.Focus on the child's best interests — the court considers the child's wishes (depending on age and maturity), safety, and the benefit of a relationship with both parents.Document any safety concerns — if there is family violence or abuse, keep records with dates and details.Apply for consent orders if both parents agree — this makes the arrangement legally enforceabl...
What mistakes should I avoid with child custody (parenting orders)?
Don't withhold a child from the other parent unless there is a genuine and immediate safety concern — this can damage your case.Don't assume equal shared parental responsibility means equal time — the court decides time arrangements separately based on what is best for the child.Don't coach the child or speak negatively about the other parent — the court takes this seriously.Don't breach a parenting order — contravention can result in fines, community service, or even imprisonment (s 70NAE).
Child Custody (Parenting Orders) in other states
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