Child Custody (Parenting Orders)
Written in plain language for general understanding. This is educational content, not legal advice. Based on Canadian federal statutes and official sources.
What is this right?
Since March 1, 2021, the terms "custody" and "access" have been replaced with "decision-making responsibility" and "parenting time" under the updated Divorce Act.
All decisions about children must be based on the best interests of the child. Section 16(3) lists detailed factors the court considers. The most important factor is the child's physical, emotional, and psychological safety.
The 2021 amendments also defined family violence for the first time in federal law. It includes physical, sexual, psychological, emotional, and financial abuse, as well as coercive and controlling behaviour.
If a parent wants to relocate with a child, they must give 60 days' written notice to the other parent.
When does it apply?
These rules apply to:
- Divorcing or separating parents with children under 18.
- Common-law parents — covered under provincial family law statutes.
- Non-parents such as grandparents may apply for contact orders in certain situations.
What should you do?
- Try to agree on a parenting plan first — courts prefer parents who cooperate.
- Create a detailed plan that covers the schedule, decision-making, holidays, and communication.
- Put the child's needs first in every decision.
- Document any violence or safety concerns with dates, details, and any evidence.
- Follow the 60-day relocation notice requirement if you plan to move.
What should you NOT do?
- Don't withhold parenting time unless there is a genuine safety concern — this can backfire in court.
- Don't speak negatively about the other parent to or in front of the child.
- Don't relocate without giving proper notice — the court can order the child returned.
- Don't assume 50/50 is automatic — there is no legal presumption of equal parenting time in Canada.
- Don't ignore the child's views — courts consider what the child wants, depending on their age and maturity.
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